Am I still a virgin
Does oral sex truly count?

Maybe you are having oral sex because you don't think it counts as sex. Did you overlook that oral sex has the word sex in its title? Or are you wondering whether you’re still a virgin if you have performed or received oral sex?

The traditional meaning of the term “virgin” is someone who is pure or someone who has not had sexual relations. The cultural meaning of the term “virgin” is someone who has not had penile-vaginal intercourse. You do what you want with those definitions.

Our job is not to judge you or define who you are. However, we do want you to think about your sexual behavior and the risks involved. You may be inviting both physical and emotional risks if you are engaging in oral sex.