Teens

Reality Unlimited defines sex as oral, anal, vaginal and hand to genital contact (mutual masterbation) with a partner

Q - Can I wear more than one condom at a time? Why?
No. Do not wear more than one at a time! A latex condom, when rubbed next to, or against another condom, causes friction which will break the condoms.

Q - If my boyfriend doesn’t have an erection inside of me, can I get pregnant?
Yes. Sperm can still be released from the penis without an erection. During sexual stimulation, pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum) carries more sperm than the entire ejaculation. If the penis only enters part way, sperm will still be present and pregnancy is a risk.

Q - Can I get a girl pregnant if she is on her period?
Yes. A menstrual cycle means that at some point during the flow (3-6 days) the unfertilized egg is being ‘flushed’ out of the female system. We have no way of determining which day that is (could occur the first or the last day of menstruation!). If during sexual activity sperm enter the female body, contact can be made with the unfertilized egg, fertilize it and implant into the uterus
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Q - I only engage in oral sex. Could I contract a STD?
Yes. Chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, humanpapilomavirus (genital warts) can all be passed through oral-genital contact. Whenever you perform oral sex on a partner, you need to have your mouth swabbed for STDs. Remember, if you have an STD in your throat or mouth, you can pass it through non-sexual contact (kissing, sharing water bottles, etc)!

Q - Am I still a virgin if I have engaged in oral sex, anal sex, genital-to-genital contact or hand to genital contact?
This is a questions we have received a number of times in classroom discussions. Reality Unlimited does not take a particular stand. Our job is to get you to think about sexual abstinence, from all kinds of sex, until marriage. If abstinence until marriage is the lifestyle you choose, there will be no doubt you are a virgin.

A hundred years ago, the term “virgin” meant “an unmarried woman”!! Today, the working term basically means one who has not had sex. Most of us take that to mean one who has not had coitus (a fancy word for “vaginal sex”). However, something interesting to note is that another definition of virginity is one who is pure, untouched and unexplored. You should ask yourself: What does pure mean? What does untouched mean? What does unexplored mean?

Sure, you may still consider yourself a virgin (technically) in this society if you haven’t had vaginal intercourse. But make no mistake, if you are having oral or anal sex, or if you are sexually stimulating someone’s genitals, you are still having sex…and if you are having sex, are you a virgin?

Here are the definitions of virginity we found. VIRGIN is not defined exclusively as someone who abstains from sexual intercourse…

encarta.msn.dictionary states…The state of being untouched, unexplored, or unspoiled

www.dictionary.com states…The quality or condition of being a virgin; The state of being pure, unsullied, or untouched; Being a virgin; caste; of or pertaining to a virgin; becoming a virgin; maidenly; modes; indication modesty; Pure; undefiled; fresh; new; A person of the male sex who has not known sexual indulgence.